Lost Friend
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Let's talk about another story of mine. In my life there are many lost friends. Some due to certain understandable reasons, conflicts or circumstances while few due to nothing.
One in particular, nothing wrong happened in the friendship (and mind you it's PURELY just friendship). I guess it's the decisions that friend made with life made me understand his priorities. And the only way to ease his stress, pain and burden is to drift away from the friendship. I have not seen him for a long time. At least to me it's a long time. It's painful to see certain things happening to him but really there's nothing i could do. I believe everyone has their own journey to walk and own decisions to make. I just hope that he would hold on to the positive values in his life. I know his destiny is more than he can think of. I can only pray for him that no matter what he will be close to God.
Up to this part of my life i come to understand that life happens. Many times it's not about who's right and who's wrong but the decisions made. Critiques may come and pass assumptions and remarks but frankly it's non of their business if they are not involved. But of course to those who truly care and love, their words are worth listening to. Yet there are bound to have lots and lots of KPO people who pretend to care. Don't get yourself too distracted by what people say and allow the words to hurt you or pull your self-esteem. They usually freely say whatever they want without thinking or caring simply because the things they say won't affect they life. But it affect yours! So why not freely shut yourself from people who pretend to care. Keep your mind clear from all these and make the right decisions in life. =) Or your can turn to someone you know that they truly care, be it your leaders, friends or family. I believe in life we don't have to hear too many comments on ourselves from people who don't care. Hear from those who wants to help you become better and willing to add more values in your life!
To all who lost their friends in one way or another, don't get too angry, don't bury in pain, don't think that's the last buddy you're going to find. 'Cause slowly you will find yourself learning to be stronger and wiser in choosing your friends. Allow yourself to have an understanding heart evn if they are not worth it. At least you will lead your life with happiness =) 加油加油!! Will share more with you people about my life next time! Thank you for reading Sam's Diary =) Feel free to drop your comments!
