Something To Share..
Thursday, October 16, 2008
Just a train of thoughts that i have and what i believe in. I believe that in a true friendship there should be trust, loyalty, genuine, willing to give and share. A true friend is there to share your happiness, burdens and willing to confront you when you're doing the wrong things. Not to crush you but to help you move higher and further. Sometimes just by keeping quiet to your wrongs and your bad habits can indirectly destroy you. In a true friendship there should be underlying grudges but able to talk things out to achieve mutual understanding. Not copying each other but being who you are and feel secure about the friendship.
If you find yourself in a close friendship with one that you can't fully trust or only can share happiness or only burdens then you got to learn to manage your expectation. True friends doesn't come easy. Both parties play an equal part. I know of lots who say that friends are seasonal. I know of friends who need a 24/7 best friend. But who can have such a human friend in life? Personally i prefer those friends who are secure and know their status in my eyes. That i do not have to meet them up everyday or every week but once we meet up or get to talk, in our hearts there's no distance. Simply openness to share our lives. I'm very blessed to have quite a number of such friends. And i know that you, if you are willing to play your equal part, can find such friends too! So whenever you come across friendship problems, don't get too overwhelmed by it. Learn to allow the right people in your heart and guard your heart from those who are not worth the effort. But of cause don't hate them la! Be friends but don't allow yourself to be too emotionally disturbed by them.
Your life is worth more than what you can think of. Never shut yourself and lose faith in finding true friendship. When you shut yourself there's no chance for God to bless you one. So why "lugi"? =) It's no good for one to be alone! Keep on believing! At least to me believing brings me more happiness =)
